A group of young female surfers gathered in the water not far from the shore to get some last-minute instructions from their instructor. The tide was high and a little rough, but the young women bravely went into the water with their surfboards.
The instructor didn’t have a board but instead two sponge supports to keep her afloat. She stayed in the water to position the girls and help them to catch the waves. As I watched, I noticed that some of the girls would attempt over and over again and be thrown from their boards over and over again. And yet they persisted. Others seemed to be content to sit on their boards and watch from the sidelines.
Finally, one girl managed to mount her board and came roaring toward the natural pool near where I was. She had fallen numerous times before, but in the end, she had success. I clapped enthusiastically and a big smile spread across her face. She had done it. She had persevered and succeeded.
In order to succeed, you have got to occasionally fail. The key is to fail forward, not backward. Failing forward means that even though we fail, we know we are closer to success because of it. We’ve learned something important from the failure which will help us in our next attempt. Everyone who ever succeeded failed at some point in the process, but they didn’t let failure pull them down.
The girl who surfed to the beach had made a fool of herself in her attempts. But she knew those failures were the price of success. She had failure in its proper perspective. Every time she fell off that board, she knew she was getting closer to victory, closer to learning the trick of keeping her balance, closer to mastering the board and improving as a surfer. She was failing forward.
Unfortunately, the others who stayed comfortably on their boards didn’t get any further. They never made a fool of themselves, or swallowed water as they fell into the surf, but they also never tasted the savor of success. They never tasted the thrill of mounting both board and wave to race ecstatically toward the shore.
So pick up your board and try again! The water is great, and you’ll come home fulfilled and sleep well, even though you may have aches and pains from the repeated falls. And tomorrow you may just get up on the board and mount that wave and ride further than you ever thought. Remember, our Instructor has told us that He is able to do exceeding abundantly above all we ask or think. (Ephesians 3:20) But we’ve got to get up on that board, even if we fail over and over! In the end, we will fail forward and make it!
Failing Backward: Blaming others. Repeating the same mistake. Expecting never to fail. Expecting to continually fail. Accepting tradition blindly. Being limited by past mistakes. Thinking “I am a failure.” Quitting.
Failing Forward: Taking responsibility. Learning from each mistake. Knowing failure is part of the process. Maintaining a positive attitude. Challenging outdated assumptions. Taking new risks. … Persevering.
Text courtesy of Activated magazine. Used by permission. Images designed by brgfx via Freepik.